What To Do When You Feel Stuck In LifeJul 26, 2023
“Fear is the glue that keeps you stuck. Faith is the solvent that sets you free.”
Today, I'm opening up about a little something I've been going through, and wondering if you can relate?
Recently, I’ve experienced an intense feeling of pressure. Like there's a clock ticking away on my dreams… and if I don’t get there fast enough, my time will somehow run out.
Although yes, I’m moving forward, and am grateful, blessed & genuinely happy, sometimes I still feel stuck… wondering if the things my heart yearns for so badly will ever make their way to me.
Building a business that brings not only financial freedom, but also fulfillment and impact, becoming a mother, finding a place to settle down that allows peace inside our chaotic world, and finding the right person to share it all with are at the top of my list.
I ask myself, “What is this moment in time trying to teach me?”
Quite clearly, I can see it’s patience.
Which for a fiery Aries, may be the biggest challenge of all!
Through my work, I understand the key to life is to transmute our pain into purpose — so I'm sharing this with you, knowing I can’t be the only one inside the pressure cooker.
We can find peace knowing that no matter where we’re at, everything’s always leading us closer to the person we were born to become.
Whether we choose to use our challenges to move us forward or we let them hold us back is up to us.
Oftentimes, when the struggle doesn’t feel good, we distract ourselves with the very things that cause even more struggle.
We put on a bandaid that never actually heals the wound…on the outside everything looks fine, but underneath we are still in pain.
If we truly want out, then the only way is through. We have to face ourselves. We have to face our fears.
When things aren’t working, we have to be brave enough to course-correct, even if that means stepping outside our comfort zone.
Because if we don’t do anything different, how can we ever expect things to change?
We have to take full responsibility for ourselves, our life, and our energy.
Instead of blaming the external, we must understand our stuckness through the internal work…Sitting with it.. asking it questions… what is here to teach you? How can you grow from this?
Use the struggle as a gateway back to the light.
You are never weak in the eyes of the Divine. Lean in… allow spirit to hold, guide, and protect you.
When you are lost, close your eyes and listen to the sound of God's voice.
And when you can’t hear anything… feel.
Feel for a nudge, a sliver of peace, a sense of relief, feel your fears disappearing & the inner knowing that everything’s going to be ok.
The only way we'll remain stuck is if we give up… if we lose hope.
Keep the faith that what’s meant for you will always find you.
Surrender to your soul & dare to go deep.
Because that, my beautiful friend, is how we truly transform our pain into prosperity.